You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (2023)
7th grade drama just hits different.
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You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah rating: IMDb, Rotten Tomatoes and Metacritic
IMDb6/10· 26K votes
Rotten Tomatoes91%
Metacritic71%
TMDb6.466/10· 509 votesWith 91% on Rotten Tomatoes, backed by 6/10 on IMDb and 71/100 on Metacritic, critical reception of this film has been very positive.
About You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic bat mitzvahs. But things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.
Cast of You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
Sunny Sandler
as Stacy Friedman
Samantha Lorraine
as Lydia Rodriguez Katz
Dylan Hoffman
as Andy Goldfarb
Dylan Chloe Dash
as Tara
Millie Thorpe
as Nikki
Miyako
as Kym Chang Cohen
Dean Scott Vazquez
as Mateo
Idina Menzel
as Bree Friedman
Adam Sandler
as Danny Friedman
Jackie Sandler
as Gabi Rodriguez Katz
Luis Guzmán
as Eli Katz
Sarah Sherman
as Rabbi Rebecca
Ranked by the iRankMovies editorial teamUpdated August 2026MethodologyData sources
Audience opinions
What the audience liked
- •Coming of age narrative captures authentic Jewish family dynamics with genuine humor
- •Middle school drama authentically portrays relatable friendship conflicts and social navigation
- •Book adaptation brings witty dialogue and emotional sincerity to teen comedy genre
What the audience disliked
- •Formulaic plot structure follows predictable beats of standard teen comedy formula
- •Broader comedy moments occasionally undercut emotional depth of character relationships
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